MEN: Elder’s Words Of Wisdom For MEN In Relationship

* My son, if you keep spending on a
woman and she never asked you if
you're saving or investing, and she
keeps enjoying the attention, don't
marry her.
* My son, a woman could be a good wife
to you, some could be a good mother to
your children but if you've found a
woman like a mother to you, your
children and your family, please don't
let her go.
* My son, don't confine the position
of your wife to the kitchen,
where did you get that from? Even in
our days, we had farm-lands where they
worked every morning . . . that was our
office.
* My son, if I tell you that you're the
head of the house, don't look at your
pocket; look if you will see a smile on
your wife's face.
* My son, if you want to have a long life,
let your wife be in-charge of your salary,
it will be difficult for her to spend it
when she's aware of the home needs
and bills to pay but if it's in your care,
she will keep you asking even when all
has been spent.
* My son, don't ever beat your
woman, the pain in her body is nothing
to be compared to the wound on her
heart and that means you may be in
trouble living with a wounded woman.
* My son, now that you're married, if
you live a bachelor kind of life with your
wife, you will soon be single again.
* My son, in our days, we had many
wives and many children because of our
large farm-lands and many harvests,
there are hardly any land for farming
anymore, so embrace your woman
closely.
* My son, under the cocoa tree that I did
meet your mother could be your eateries
and restaurants of nowadays, but
remember, the closet thing we did there
was to embrace each other.
* My son, don't be carried away when
you start making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never
knew how hard you worked to get it,
spend it on that woman that stood by
you all along.
* My son, when I threw little stones or
whistled at the window of your mother
father's house, to call her out, it was not
for sex, it was because I missed her so
much.
* My son, remember, when you say your
wife has changed, there could be
something you've stopped doing too.
* My son, your mother, Asake rode the
bicycle with me before I bought that
tortoise car outside there, any woman
that won't endure with you in your little
beginning should not enjoy your riches.
* My son, don't compare your wife to
any woman, there are ways she's
enduring you too and has she ever
compared you to any man?
* My son, there is this thing you people
call feminism, well, if a woman claim to
have equal right with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal parts,
take one part and ask her to start paying
the other part.
* My son, I met your mother a virgin and
I took more yams to her father, if you
don't meet your wife a virgin, don't
blame her, what I didn't tell you is that
our women had prestige.
* My son, I didn't send your sisters to
school because I was foolish like many to
think a female child won't extend my
family name, please don't make that
mistake, the kind of female achievers I
see nowadays has made the male-gender
an ordinary tag.
* My son, your mother have once locked
up the cloth I was wearing and almost
tore it because she was angry, I did not
raise my hand to beat her because of a
day like this, so that I can be proud to
tell you that I never for once beat your
mother.
* My son, in our days, our women had
more of natural beauty, though I
wouldn't lie to you, some had minor
painting of their appellation mostly on
their arms, the ones you people now call
tattoo, but don't forget that they didn't
expose any part of their body like
your women of nowadays.
* My son, your mother and I is not
interested in what happens in your
marriage, try to handle issues without
always coming to us.
* My son, remember I bought your
mother's first sewing machine for her,
help your wife achieve her dreams just
as you're pursuing yours.
* My son, don't stop taking care of me
and your mother, it's a secret of
growing old and having children to take
care of you too.
* My son, pray with your family, there is
a tomorrow you don't know, talk to God
that knows everything, everyday.
* My son, if I had taken my time to tell
you all these and your marriage did not
last like that of your mother and I, then
you are a bastard.
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