3 Step Plan For A Stronger Relationship

We put together three
simple but effective strategies for rebuilding your
bond and creating more intimacy between you
and your man.
Step one: Set some relationship goals
One of the quickest routes to relationship
reconnection is setting a mutual goal – one that
you can strive for as a couple. But we suggest
going even further and making the goals about
your relationship itself. Sit down together (try
going to a cafe or quiet bar rather than staying at
home) and think about what you would like to
see happen.
Do you want to have more fun together? Talk the
way you used to at the beginning of your
relationship? Go out more? Expand your social
circle? Whatever you decide, write it down. This
can be your guide going forward for how to
really improve your life together – in a way that
works for both of you.
Step two: Talk about what's working – and what
isn't
If you want to get your relationship back on
track, you're going to have to talk about it. Make
a point of being honest about what is working
and what could use some improvement. Agree to
continue doing the things that bring you closer
(and ideally do them even more) and make an
effort to change what causes friction or stress.
Be gentle and listen to each other. This isn't the
time to take jabs at one another. You're in this
together to build a stronger connection and
improve what you have together. If you've been
frustrated with doing all the housework, explain
how it makes you feel (tired and like you aren't
working as a team). If he is concerned with your
lack of interest in having fun together, take it in
stride and use it to spur you on to make your
bond even better.
Step three: Bring back that loving feeling
A lackluster love connection doesn't have to be
the end of the line. Most couples get into ruts or
hit snags so feeling a bit out of touch is normal.
The key to bringing that love back is to refocus
your attention on the positive. Stress, too many
responsibilities and financial strain can cause
couples to start turning against each other,
rather than working as a team. Don't let this
happen to you.
Focus on what you love about your partner and
think back to loving memories you can draw on
when you feel less than loving. The more loving
thoughts you conjure up, the easier it will be to
reconnect and start to boost your connection.
she knows
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